Love and marriage...with 3 kids!

So my hubby and I have been married for 6 years this April, we have changed so much since we were first together. The biggest change is losing time together with 3 kids running every which way. I've started trying to find extra time for each other and realized. Maybe if the time isn't available for both of us....I can use my available time after everyone's in bed. So on the eve of Valentines Day...I thought to myself what can I do to make this day mean something to us. So...I took pink and red construction paper and wrote notes about why I loved him all over the house. Some of the locations I put them were related to what the note said i.e."I love laying in bed with you doing nothing." So I put that heart above our bed. You get the idea anyways. I also thought I'd use the left over paper for notes too. Then the other day I came up with the idea of using our stainless steel frig as a dry erase board for chores. It worked out great so tonight I used it as a giant note to my hubby about how much I love him. This is what Valentines Day should be about...not spending money, buying gift, or going crazy with candy. It should be about sharing your love with the one you love. Expect nothing in return and receive everything.